1. Amanda Peters has said that the opening line, "The day Ruthie went missing, the blackflies seemed to be especially hungry," came to her, and the rest of the book followed. How did this line set the scene? What expectations did it give you for the story, and were those fulfilled?
2. After Ruthie goes missing, what do you think keeps the remaining family members bound together? What do you think pulls them apart?
3. As the last person to see Ruthie before she disappeared, Joe is haunted for the rest of his life. How do you think guilt/regret affected his life, or changed who he could have become?
4. How did Norma/Ruthie’s inability to settle surface as the years passed? What was Lenore’s (Norma’s mother) response to these moments? How does Lenore’s response to these
moments affect Norma/Ruthie?
5. When Norma/Ruthie starts to question her identity through dreams and physical differences, should Lenore have told her the truth, even if it meant losing her?
6. Were you surprised when Norma/Ruthie told Aunt June that she had figured out that she was adopted? Were you shocked to find out that she had actually been kidnapped?
7. When Norma/Ruthie finds out her true identity, she holds Aunt June accountable for hiding the truth. Do you think June’s loyalty to her sister is understandable, or does her silence make her as guilty as Lenore?
8. Lenore steals Ruthie to fill her own emptiness, but she also gives Ruthie a life of comfort and security. Do you see Lenore as a villain, a victim of her own grief, or something in between? Which actions made you like or dislike her most—and why?