Is what I'm feeling normal? -- Funerals, obituaries, and memorial services: things you never wanted to know -- Stages of grief -- How long will this last? -- The guilt and "what ifs" -- Triggers -- Healthy healing -- Well-meaning comments and questions -- Relationship under stress: spouse or significant other -- Support for surviving children -- Faith and hope -- A new perspective -- Ways to remember your child -- Friends and family: how to help -- The children who inspire us -- To do: your child's life story.