Nanaville /
Material type: TextPublisher: New York : Random House, 2019Edition: First editionDescription: 162 pagesContent type:- text
- unmediated
- volume
- 9780812996104
- 0812996100
- 813/.54 B 23
- PS3567.U336 Z85 2019
Item type | Current library | Home library | Collection | Call number | Copy number | Status | Date due | Barcode | Item holds | |
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Standard Loan | Hayden Library Adult Biography | Hayden Library | Book | QUINDLE-QUINDLE (Browse shelf(Opens below)) | 1 | Available | 50610021956185 |
Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER * The perfect gift for new parents and grandparents this Mother's Day: a bighearted book of wisdom, wit, and insight, celebrating the love and joy of being a grandmother, from the Pulitzer Prize-winning columnist and #1 bestselling author
"This tender book should be required reading for grandparents everywhere."-- Booklist (starred review)
"I am changing his diaper, he is kicking and complaining, his exhausted father has gone to the kitchen for a glass of water, his exhausted mother is prone on the couch. He weighs little more than a large sack of flour and yet he has laid waste to the living room: swaddles on the chair, a nursing pillow on the sofa, a car seat, a stroller. No one cares about order, he is our order, we revolve around him. And as I try to get in the creases of his thighs with a wipe, I look at his, let's be honest, largely formless face and unfocused eyes and fall in love with him. Look at him and think, well, that's taken care of, I will do anything for you as long as we both shall live, world without end, amen."
Before blogs even existed, Anna Quindlen became a go-to writer on the joys and challenges of family, motherhood, and modern life, in her nationally syndicated column. Now she's taking the next step and going full nana in the pages of this lively, beautiful, and moving book about being a grandmother. Quindlen offers thoughtful and telling observations about her new role, no longer mother and decision-maker but secondary character and support to the parents of her grandson. She writes, "Where I once led, I have to learn to follow." Eventually a close friend provides words to live by: "Did they ask you?"
Candid, funny, frank, and illuminating, Quindlen's singular voice has never been sharper or warmer. With the same insights she brought to motherhood in Living Out Loud and to growing older in Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake , this new nana uses her own experiences to illuminate those of many others.
Praise for Nanaville
"Witty and thoughtful . . . Nanaville serves up enough vivid anecdotes and fresh insights--about childhood, about parenthood, about grandparenthood and about life--to make for a gratifying read." -- The New York Times
"Classic, bittersweet Quindlen . . . [Her] wonder at seeing her eldest child grow into his new role is lovely and moving. . . . The best parts of Nanaville are the charming vignettes of Quindlen's solo time with her grandson." --NPR
"Before mommy blogs were even invented, Anna Quindlen became a go-to writer on the joys and challenges of motherhood in her nationally syndicated column. Now she's taking the next step and going full Nana in the pages of this lively and moving book about her grandchildren, her children, and her new and remarkable role"--
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Publishers Weekly Review
In this wise and endearing book, former New York Times columnist Quindlen (Alternate Sides) addresses the subject of grandparenting, sharing her own experiences and advice. Despite having raised three children, Quindlen admits that as a grandmother, or "Nana"-which she became at age 64-she is "totally green." She dotes on her toddler grandson, Arthur, and has strong opinions about how he should be raised, yet remains cognizant of her proper place; when it comes to decision-making, she observes, she is neither president nor vice president, but something akin to speaker of the house. She concludes that the grandparent's role consists not so much of "doing" as "hanging back" and respecting the parents' choices. The book is filled with Quindlen's playful sense of humor (if her baby daughter had wanted to sleep upside down "like a bat," she would have let her), along with thoughtful reflections on how parenting and grandparenting have changed (for instance, fathers are more involved, there's a lot more baby gear to buy, and more people are living long enough to become grandparents). This heartfelt and delightful work will especially appeal to readers already living within their own versions of "Nanaville." Agent: Amanda Urban, ICM. (Apr.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.Booklist Review
There are really only two commandments of Nanaville: love the grandchildren, and hold your tongue. When Quindlen's oldest son becomes a father, Nana, as she now is called, learns quickly that being a grandparent isn't the same as being a parent. Instead of being a star, she now is in a supporting role. Decisions about preschools, discipline, nutrition, and television shows are no longer hers. Instead she must keep her thoughts to herself (unless asked) and sit back and watch her grandchild's life unfold without expectations. But what an honor to do just that. Since her grandson is a product of both Irish-Italian and Chinese parents, Quindlen now views life through different eyes. In a world filled with multiethnic children, she is surprised to hear well-meaning but actually offensive comments by friends (even positive stereotyping is stereotyping). Grandparenting is new territory for this best-selling novelist and beloved former columnist, and as always in her warmly candid nonfiction, Quindlen voices concerns and celebrates high points with sensitivity and insight. As her life fills with unbreakable dishes, scattered Legos, and bite-sized treats, Quindlen savors a shared book, a held hand, a child's laugh, and a relationship built on mutual love and respect. This tender book should be required reading for grandparents everywhere.HIGH-DEMAND BACKSTORY: Quindlen has established a close rapport with readers as she shares her life experiences, and her latest will thrill loyal fans and draw a new audience.--Candace Smith Copyright 2019 BooklistKirkus Book Review
A first-time grandmother discovers joy and self-knowledge in her new role.Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist, columnist, and memoirist Quindlen (Alternate Side, 2018, etc.) celebrates the gift of being a grandmother: a new experience, she writes, that gives her "a second chance, to see, to be, to understand the world, to look at it and reimagine my place in it, to feel as though I've made a mark." Besides reporting sweet anecdotes about her toddler grandson, the author reflects on her changing relationship with her son and daughter-in-law, an inevitable shift from being central in the lives of her children to a "peripheral place" in a new family dynamic. Her son, she has observed with pride, has become an exemplary parent; when she asked "what surprised him most about being a father," he replied, "I guess it's how much I love him in a way that I've never loved anyone before." For Quindlen, that reply was "like sunrise and sunset and New Year's Eve all at once." Admitting that she can be opinionated, she has learned to hold her tongue when it comes to parenting decisions. "Nana judgment must be employed judiciously, and exercised carefully," she warns. "Those who make their opinions sound like the Ten Commandments see their grandchildren only on major holidays and in photographs." The author was 64 when her grandson was born; her grandmother was 47 when she had her first grandchild, yet grandparents seemed so much older then: "Our grandmothers were pre-gym, pre-Botox, pre-skinny jeans." They never kissed, hugged, or praised; they would never have gotten down on the floor to play with their dozens of grandchildren, but Quindlen was certain of their love. "I thought," she writes, "they were the patriarchs, the source of all judgment and wisdom." The author imparts sensible advice with self-deprecating humor and sincere gratitude for the bounty of her life.A warmhearted memoir sure to appeal to other new grandmothersand Quindlen's many fans. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.Author notes provided by Syndetics
Author Anna Quindlen was born in Philadelphia on July 8, 1953. She graduated from Barnard in 1974 and serves on their Board of Trustees.Quindlen worked as a reporter for the New York Post and the New York Times and wrote columns for the Times. She won the 1992 Pulitzer Prize for Commentary before devoting herself to writing fiction.
She has written both adult fiction (including Object Lessons, Black and Blue and One True Thing, which was made into a motion picture starring Meryl Streep) and children's fiction (Happily Ever After and The Tree That Came to Stay). Her title Alternate Side made the bestseller list in 2018.
Currently, she is a columnist at Newsweek. Her title Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake made The New York Times Best Seller list for 2012. (Bowker Author Biography)
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