The shape of family : a novel / Shilpi Somaya Gowda.

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NATIONAL & INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER

Named a book not to miss by USA Today * Chicago Sun-Times * New York Post

"Deeply involving....Rings so true." -- Emma Donoghue, bestselling author of Room

From the international bestselling author of Secret Daughter and The Golden Son comes a poignant, unforgettable novel about a family's growing apart and coming back together in the wake of tragedy.

"The Shape of Family is a novel about race and culture, parents and siblings, marriage and love, but most of all, it's about finding hope after darkness. Shilpi Somaya Gowda is a compassionate and wise storyteller who keeps us riveted from beginning to end." -- Jean Kwok, New York Times bestselling author of Girl in Translation

The Olander family embodies the modern American Dream in a globalized world. Jaya, the cultured daughter of an Indian diplomat and Keith, an ambitious banker from middle-class Philadelphia, meet in a London pub in 1988 and make a life together in suburban California. Their strong marriage is built on shared beliefs and love for their two children: headstrong teenager Karina and young son Prem, the light of their home.

But love and prosperity cannot protect them from sudden, unspeakable tragedy, and the family's foundation cracks as each member struggles to seek a way forward. Jaya finds solace in spirituality. Keith wagers on his high-powered career. Karina focuses relentlessly on her future and independence. And Prem watches helplessly as his once close-knit family drifts apart.

When Karina heads off to college for a fresh start, her search for identity and belonging leads her down a dark path, forcing her and her family to reckon with the past, the secrets they've held and the weight of their choices.

The Shape of Family is an intimate portrayal of four individuals as they grapple with what it means to be a family and how to move from a painful past into a hopeful future. It is a profoundly moving exploration of the ways we all seek belonging--in our families, our communities and ultimately, within ourselves.

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Publishers Weekly Review

Gowda's evocative if predictable follow-up to The Golden Sun examines how a family deals with the loss of a child. In a California suburb, Karina spends her high school years blaming herself for the drowning death of her eight-year-old brother, Prem, when she was a preteen looking after him. Jaya, her mother, born in India but raised internationally as her diplomat father traveled the world, finds solace by returning to her Hindu religious roots. Karina's father, Keith, a Lutheran-raised Philadelphian, buries himself in high-pressured financial work. Karina turns her misery inward, finding release in cutting herself and obsessing over school. While Gowda's handling of teen self-esteem issues tracks a well-trodden path, a parallel between Jaya's sudden dedication to an Indian guru and Karina's involvement with a utopian commune after she goes off to college adds texture. Descriptions of the adversity faced by the children at school for being "mixed" are also done well. In chapters alternating among Karin, Jaya, and Keith, Gowda skillfully unpacks the family's tension and trauma, though the conclusion comes too quickly, and mawkish entries narrated by Prem are a major drawback. No one but the reader hears the dead brother's superfluous assurances that Karina wasn't at fault for his death. There's a lot of potential here, but too much of it is unmet. (Mar.)

Booklist Review

The Olanders weren't a perfect family, but they were a unit. Jaya, the daughter of an Indian diplomat, and her husband, Keith, built a life for their two children, Keith taking pride in his ability to provide after his serial-entrepreneur father had taken his family through unpredictable periods of boom and bust. But one day, the unthinkable happens: the Olanders lose their 8-year-old son in a tragic accident, for which his 13-year-old sister, Karina, blames herself. In the years that follow, the Olanders are split apart, living mostly separate lives around the gaping wound in the center of their family. As Keith pours his energy into work that begins to hover at the edge of legality, Jaya dedicates herself to her spirituality, transforming their son's room into a shrine. Karina, meanwhile, must navigate young adulthood with the burden of guilt, begging for quiet relief, eventually trying to find refuge at a collaborative commune. Rendered with compassion, this is a compelling testament to a family's struggle to find solace.--Bridget Thoreson Copyright 2020 Booklist

Kirkus Book Review

After calamity strikes, the members of the Olander family struggle to find their paths back to each other.The children of an American father and an Indian mother, Karina and Prem Olander have learned to stick together. Thirteen-year-old Karina defends Prem, 8, from school bullies and even walks hand in hand with him on the way home, but she wants her time alone, too. Pushing Prem away one afternoon so that she can spend time trying on makeup and talking to her best friend, however, leads to a deadly accident. With each chapter telling the story from a different family member's perspective, Gowda (The Golden Son, 2016, etc.) traces the fallout lines with compassion and a keen eye for the lies we tell ourselves to avoid facing our own demons. While Prem watches from someplace after death, his and Karina's parents split up, with their father, Keith, submerging himself in his work in the financial industry and making some ethically questionable decisions. Their mother, Jaya, drifts away from everyone, rediscovering her spirituality, spending hours in ritualized prayer, building a temple in the family's home, and following the teachings of a prominent Hindu guru. With Prem's chapters underdeveloped, Gowda focuses primarily on Karina, tracing her spiral first into depression and then into self-destructive behavior. Once she leaves for college, Karina is primed to fall in love, to be betrayed, and to find solace at the Sanctuary. A communal farm headed by the charismatic Micah, the Sanctuary offers Karina meaningful work surrounded by people who embrace her, bearing witness to her sense of guilt. But as Karina begins to suspect that Micah may not be quite who he claims to be, Gowda ratchets up the tension, shifting gears into a thriller late in the game, setting in motion the family's reunion.A deft, patient portrait of grief. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.