Tiny beautiful things : advice on love and life from Dear Sugar /
Material type: TextPublication details: New York : Vintage Books, c2012.Description: p. cmISBN:- 9780307949332
- 0307949338 (
- 070.4/44 23
- BJ1589 .S84 2012
Item type | Current library | Home library | Collection | Call number | Status | Date due | Barcode | Item holds | |
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Standard Loan | Priest Lake Library Adult Nonfiction | Priest Lake Library | Book | 070.4 STRAYED (Browse shelf(Opens below)) | Available | 50610023209062 |
Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:
NATIONAL BESTSELLER * Soon to be a Hulu Original series * The internationally acclaimed author of Wild collects the best of The Rumpus 's Dear Sugar advice columns plus never-before-published pieces. Rich with humor and insight--and absolute honesty--this "wise and compassionate" ( New York Times Book Review) book is a balm for everything life throws our way.
Life can be hard: your lover cheats on you; you lose a family member; you can't pay the bills--and it can be great: you've had the hottest sex of your life; you get that plum job; you muster the courage to write your novel. Sugar--the once-anonymous online columnist at The Rumpus, now revealed as Cheryl Strayed, author of the bestselling memoir Wild --is the person thousands turn to for advice.
"Tiny Beautiful Things" brings the best of Cheryl Strayed's published and never-before-published online columns in one place and includes a new introduction by Steve Almond.
Table of contents provided by Syndetics
- Introduction (p. 3)
- Part I It was Always Only Us
- Like an Iron Bell (p. 13)
- How You Get Unstuck (p. 19)
- That Ecstatic Parade (p. 31)
- A Motorcycle with No One on It (p. 37)
- The Reckoning (p. 39)
- There's a Bundle on Your Head (p. 48)
- Write Like a Motherfucker (p. 53)
- A New, More Fractured Light (p. 61)
- Dudes in the Woods (p. 64)
- Icky Thoughts Turn Me On (p. 73)
- Reach (p. 78)
- Part II Whatever Mysterious Starlight that Guided You this Far
- The Baby Bird (p. 89)
- Go! Go! Go! (p. 92)
- The Black Arc of It (p. 94)
- Hell Is Other People's Boyfriends (p. 100)
- Thwack, Thwack, Thwack (p. 104)
- The Woman Hanging on the End of the Line (p. 110)
- No Mystery About Sperm (p. 115)
- The Mad Sex Confessor (p. 124)
- The Future Has an Ancient Heart (p. 128)
- Faux Friendship Footsie (p. 135)
- The Human Scale (p. 139)
- Part III Carry the Water Yourself
- Beauty and the Beast (p. 149)
- I Chose van Gogh (p. 158)
- The Other Side of the Pool (p. 160)
- The Truth That Lives There (p. 166)
- Too Much Paint (p. 175)
- Tiny Revolutions (p. 178)
- Not Enough (p. 185)
- No Is Golden (p. 187)
- Romantic Love Is Not a Competitive Sport (p. 193)
- A Big Life (p. 199)
- The Known Unknowns (p. 209)
- On Your Island (p. 212)
- Part IV You Don't have to be Broken for Me
- The Magic of Wanting to Be (p. 217)
- A Glorious Something Else (p. 223)
- A Tunnel That Wakes You (p. 231)
- How the Real Work Is Done (p. 233)
- The Ghost Ship That Didn't Carry Us (p. 241)
- Your Invisible Inner Terrible Someone (p. 249)
- Waiting by the Phone (p. 253)
- We Are All Savages Inside (p. 257)
- The Lusty Broad (p. 264)
- The Bad Things You Did (p. 268)
- Bend (p. 274)
- The Obliterated Place (p. 277)
- Part V Put it in a Box and Wait
- A Bit of Sully in Your Sweet (p. 289)
- We Are Here to Build the House (p. 299)
- The Empty Bowl (p. 304)
- Transcend (p. 312)
- A Shimmering Slice of Your Mysterious Destiny (p. 317)
- The Ordinary Miraculous (p. 320)
- We Call This a Clusterfuck (p. 324)
- Are You My Mother? (p. 335)
- Ten Angry Boys (p. 338)
- Tiny Beautiful Things (p. 350)
- Acknowledgments (p. 355)
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Library Journal Review
This beloved Internet advice columnist, using the pseudonym Sugar, revealed herself in early 2012 to be the acclaimed novelist and memoirist Strayed (Wild). First appearing on The Rumpus (therumpus.net) in 2010, her column "Dear Sugar" quickly attracted a large and devoted following with its cut-to-the-quick aphorisms like "Write like a motherfucker" and "Be brave enough to break your own heart." This collection gathers up the best of Sugar, whose trademark is deeply felt and frank responses grounded in her own personal experience. In many ways, it is a portrait of Strayed herself: she describes her estranged father, her passionate but doomed first marriage, her relationship with her current husband (Mr. Sugar), and, most thoroughly, her much-missed mother, who died suddenly while Strayed was in college. She answers queries on subjects ranging from professional jealousy to leaving a loved partner to coping with the death of a child to a (not-so) simple "WTF?" VERDICT Part advice, part personal essay, these pieces grapple with life's biggest questions. Beautifully written and genuinely wise, this book is full of heartache and love. Highly recommended.-Molly McArdle, Library Journal (c) Copyright 2012. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.Publishers Weekly Review
Strayed (Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Coast Trail), in this collection of advice (some previously unpublished) for readers of her column "Dear Sugar" on therumpus.net, chooses thought-provoking questions from her readers and listens deeply to their emotional content. In casually intimate prose (to a struggling writer: "dear sweet arrogant beautiful crazy tortured talented rising star glowbug") and literary grace, she creates moments of wise, compassionate insight in often startlingly personal miniature memoirs, cradling gentle but practical guidance with enough humor to cement Strayed's presence as both a mentor and the most understanding of friends. Sugar can be tough and honest (to the same struggling writer: "buried beneath all the anxiety and sorrow and fear and self-loathing [in your letter], there's arrogance at its core"), but she's never mean: in Sugar's world, we all deserve love unconditionally, but also owe it to ourselves to act in the world to be the best, most authentic selves that we can be. For a regrounding in the beauty of what it means to be flawed and gorgeously human, for answers that feel real whether we've been able to ask the right question, Strayed's caring little essays offer surprisingly rich comfort. Agent: Zachary Shuster Harnsworth Agency. (July) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.Booklist Review
Strayed caused a stir when she revealed herself to be the writer behind the popular advice column Dear Sugar right after the success of her memoir, Wild (2011), the first pick for Oprah's new book club. So it makes good sense to publish a collection of selected letters from the column. But this is no mere marketing ploy. Strayed has selected stories of heartbreak and sorrow, guilt and anguish, and revealed how all of them embody the fact that suffering is life, and life is beautiful. There is something profoundly comforting in the realization that while, as humans, we are all deeply and consistently flawed, this is no reason to despair. Strayed makes this point again and again with a combination of bottomless empathy and a few hard, honest truths. The letters are grouped together in sections that begin with brief interviews with Strayed, though it's unclear what precisely the common thread for each group is. Strayed's fans will be delighted with this intimate glimpse into her past, and advice seekers will find plenty to chew on.--Hunter, Sarah Copyright 2010 BooklistKirkus Book Review
Strayed (Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail, 2012, etc.) offers insight into the world of online advice through her collection of letters sent to "Dear Sugar," her once-anonymous column for the online magazine The Rumpus. Sugar's Golden Rule--"Trust Yourself"--pushes the author and her readers to embrace themselves and not be afraid of asking life's complex questions. Strayed writes that she will "answer anything, so long as it interests or challenges or touches me." Men and women of all ages contact her hoping she can solve their problems, which include affairs, the loss of a loved one, self-acceptance and understanding the point of existence. In thematic sections, the author presents verbatim letters and their detailed published replies. Strayed's practical advice mixes with abundant personal anecdotes in which she illustrates to the addressee the reasoning behind her counsel. Admittedly not versed in psychology, her responses are sensitive and comprehensive, and her verbose self-reflection projects understanding and sympathy. Though she avoids medical jargon, Strayed suggests medical counseling when it is necessary. The author demonstrates her forthright personality in a comforting yet stern writing style that connects readers to each contributor's plight and the subsequent response to their cry for help. Appealing to Dear Sugar fans and self-help seekers alike, this "collection of intimate exchanges between strangers" demonstrates that wisdom doesn't come only from age, but also from learning from the experiences of others. A realistic and poignant compilation of the intricacies of relationships.]] Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.Author notes provided by Syndetics
Cheryl Strayed, née Nyland, was born on September 17, 1968 in Spangler, Pennsylvania. She is an American memoirist, novelist and essayist. Her second book, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail was published in the United States on March 20, 2012, and has been translated into more than thirty languages. It is an Oprah Book Club 2.0 choice, made the New York Times Bestseller list and was optioned for film rights by Reese Witherspoon even before it was published. The film is scheduled to be released in 2014.Strayed's first book, the novel Torch, was published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt in February 2006. She attended the University of Minnesota in Minneapolis, where she received her Bachelor of Arts degree, graduating magna cum laude with a double major in English and Women's Studies. A long-time feminist activist, Strayed served on the first board of directors for VIDA: Women in Literary Arts.
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